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How Anyone Can Become a Great Speaker: Simple Steps to Better Professional Communication Skills with Brenden Kumarasamy



Unlocking the Power of Communication: Lessons from Brenden Kumarasamy’s Journey


If you ever doubted your ability to be a confident public speaker or an effective communicator, Brenden Kumarasamy’s story might just change your mind. In a recent episode of the Pathways podcast with Amber Stitt, Brenden—founder of MasterTalk and a passionate advocate for accessible communication coaching—shared how overcoming personal challenges became the foundation of his mission to teach others.


From Overcoming Obstacles to Sharing Wisdom


Brenden’s journey began in Montreal, where he faced a unique set of challenges: navigating life in a French-speaking city without knowing the language, coping with a crooked left arm from a birth injury, and battling self-consciousness as a child. Despite these hurdles, Brenden not only learned to communicate effectively but developed a talent for coaching others on the same journey.


As Brenden puts it, “If I could do it, anybody listening to this podcast can be a great speaker, for sure.” His story is a testament to the fact that public speaking isn’t about being born gifted—it’s about practice, perspective, and building confidence step-by-step.


Why Communication Feels So Hard


One of the episode’s most relatable insights centers on why so many people fear public speaking. Brenden explains that most of us first learn to present in a formal setting during school, often on topics we care little about and under pressure of grades. This environment conditions us to associate speaking with anxiety, discomfort, and even punishment—think red marker and an “F” for a poor presentation.


Brenden’s takeaway? Recognize that much of our fear is learned, not innate. With intention and the right exercises, anyone can rewire those associations.


Practical Communication Exercises You Can Try Today


Brenden shares his signature “RQV” framework—three simple but powerful exercises anyone can use, whether you’re a CEO, or a student:


1. Random Word Exercise (R): Pick any random word (e.g., “battery,” “glass”) and try to give a one-minute presentation on it. This helps to build quick thinking, loosen up, and learn to communicate structure and enthusiasm even when the topic is unfamiliar, or silly. If you can make sense out of nonsense, you’ll find your real work presentations much easier.


2. Question Drill (Q): Every day, answer one question you think someone might ask about your expertise. Over time, you’ll build an enormous bank of answers and become “bulletproof” in interviews, meetings, or panels. This also forces you to anticipate feedback and find ways to continually improve your messaging.


3. Video Message (V): Take out your phone and send a short, unedited video message to someone you appreciate. The only rule: no retakes. This not only builds confidence on camera but also adds authenticity to your communication—plus, it’s a wonderful way to connect meaningfully with others.


For Introverts and Extroverts Alike


Brenden makes it clear that introverts don’t need to become extroverts to succeed at speaking. In fact, introverts often excel at pausing, listening, and being relatable. The trick is to practice in low-pressure environments—alone, or just with a mirror—and gradually build comfort.


Communication is a Life Skill


In today’s competitive, digital, and increasingly AI-driven world, how we communicate will set us apart more than ever. Whether you’re an executive building your personal brand, a student speaking in class, or simply someone hoping to connect more authentically, the message is the same: the more you practice, the better you’ll get.


As Brenden says, “The best way to speak is: to speak.” No shortcuts, no magic. Just show up, try, and keep improving.


Ready to start?


If you’re looking for a simple first step, pick one of the RQV exercises and commit to trying it today. Remember: communication, like any skill, starts with action.


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